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The FIB will change your wedding planning game

January 01, 2019 2 min read

The FIB will change your wedding planning game

Sometimes it's the ideas that seem too simple, too easy to make any difference is the thing that you need to hear. 

That's how I feel about the FIB... the f*ck it bucket. It's not only the most popular episode of the Bridechilla Wedding Planning Podcast, but it also featured in all of my wedding planning guides and is part of the Bridechilla Communities vernacular. 
When you get it the FIB. Embrace the FIB. Add the FIB to your life... 
Big things happen

Sounds too simple, yes?
That's because it is.


The FIB can and will change your wedding planning game.

The FIB is like a big valve that releases wedding planning stress.  
It's all about giving yourself permission to not worry about the things that don't matter, even when the wedding magazines and Pinterest (and maybe your Mom) are saying that they do. 

The FIB is where you put all of the jobs, expectations, and things you thought where vital, like the stuff you needed to buy or do but have run out of time and energy to care. 
These items and tasks are things you thought would be necessary at the early stages of planning but now…bye! 👋🏼
Putting things in the FIB is one of the most cathartic and invigorating exercises ever.
Here's an example. 

  • Perhaps you are stressed about how much chair covers are going to cost?I'll let you in on a secret. No one cares about chair covers. They are giant, shiny chair condoms that make NO difference to the 'success' of your wedding. 
  • Your Bridesmaids are arguing about the decision about which shoes to wear. Are you ready for this? No one will be looking at your bridesmaid shoes. Unless one of them is wearing work boots or clown shoes, then pick a colorrange, pick a style and put that worry in the fuck it bucket and move on.

Put them in the fuck it bucket and watch them burn.
Let go and move on. Clear the cache. 
Sound good?

Listen to the FIB Bridechilla Wedding Podcast Episode

 Get our free FIB Cheatsheet

If you would like some FIB inspo, click on the image below to download our free FIB cheatsheet.

Want the whole big FIB list? You can find it in our 'How to' wedding planning guide, The Bridechilla Survival Guide!

The Bridechilla FIB Cheatsheet